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Ever hear of the term, “Freshman Fifteen?” It’s a common phrase referring to weight gained by incoming college freshmen who don’t know how to control themselves at the all-you-can-eat-dormitory cafeterias. Well, I’m wondering if there is a phrase for weight gained by the parents who are left behind. Something like that “sympathy pregnancy” weight gain fathers often experience when his wife is pregnant. I may need to start a support group. Let me know if you want to join. My college freshman daughter did not gain the “Freshman Fifteen.”
I did.
Last year at this time, I sent my first born child across the country into the unknown, cruel world for her first year of college. That sounds melodramatic, I know, but at the time, that’s exactly how it felt…like I was literally throwing her to the wolves. Who was going to make sure she was drinking enough water? Eating right? Make sure she was safe? I was a wreck and trying not to show it for her sake. I wanted her to have complete confidence that everything was going to be wonderful.
Fast forward to May 2009, and everything about her freshman year of college in Connecticut was wonderful. “Freshman Fifteen?” No. She might have gained three pounds over the course of those months. However, the beauty of being eighteen-years-old is that she lost that weight in less than three days. Me?? I gained the full fifteen pounds. And I haven’t lost it.
Summer is over now, and my darling child is going back to school—today. Her flight leaves in five hours from now. She has vowed to bring up her grades and to budget her study time better. I have vowed to lose my “Freshman Fifteen.”
You are welcome to join me in this blog as I journey toward regaining my prior fitness level. I am a marathoner! How could I have let these bad emotional eating habits creep up on me? In the next weeks, I will be making goals and discussing them here on this public forum. You are also welcome to make suggestions. There is room for improvement in anyone—freshman fifteen or not.
On this blog, I will talk about making goals and keeping them. My first goal is to run the Carlsbad Marathon on January 24th, 2010. Want to run it with me? Let’s do it! We can talk about running the Full or the Half. Personally, I prefer running half marathons. I will write about choosing a marathon schedule. Best running shoes. How to pick ‘em.
How to stay motivated. Injuries. How to prevent them and how to treat them if we do get injured. Local running communities. Where to find somebody to run with.
Let’s do this!
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